This post reflects on the author’s life experiences woven into a generational narrative. Born in the early 1970s, the author shares her journey from a summer job at a Xerox shop to becoming a freelancer. They highlight the limitations faced by their generation in India, adapting through technological shifts from typewriters to the internet. The narrative explores the different generational timelines in India, emphasising the unique cultural influences at play. The author advocates for understanding these distinct experiences, drawing compassion and insights from them, and encourages others to reflect on their stories. Ultimately, it's about honouring the quiet yet significant adaptations of their generation.
Author: Vidya Suri
Aspirant Children's books and Non-Fiction Writer
Series: Extraordinary Attorney Woo | My Takeaway
The author's exposure to KDrama began with "You're Beautiful," which was nice blending Indian cultural elements with Korean storytelling. Language learning evolved through viewing dramas, enriching understanding of customs and idioms. The series "Extraordinary Attorney Woo" highlighted social inclusivity and character growth, emphasising understanding and acceptance of diverse individuals, particularly those with autism.
Sympathy Vs. Empathy, Tipping Towards Sympathy!
The author reflects on the complexity of empathy versus sympathy in caregiving, particularly in relation to schizophrenia. They argue that sympathy maintains emotional boundaries, offering stability and preventing caregiver burnout. The piece emphasises a preference for sympathy over empathy, suggesting that the former can better support both caregiver and patient without emotional entanglement.
Best Choice Ever (CDrama, 2024) | My Takeaway
The author expresses admiration for Yang Zi's performances in various dramas, notably "Best Choice Ever," rating it highly for its writing and acting. They explore themes of family dynamics, cultural similarities across East and West regarding familial relationships, and emphasise the importance of communication in enduring marriages. Personal reflections on marriage and family highlight the emotional cost of a well-honed relationships.
Rumi’s Parables for the Soul
The author reflects on their connection to literature, noting how interruptions in their digital consumption lead to a return to books, particularly Rumi’s works. Their lifelong journey through stories has fostered a realisation that, despite cultural differences, shared themes of humanity unite readers, enriching understanding and fostering connections across diverse backgrounds.
The Female of the Species by Gauri Deshpande | My Take
Gauri Deshpande's poem "The Female of the Species" explores the emotional resilience and solidarity among women navigating similar hardships. It highlights their unspoken strength and the complex, nuanced communications they share during mundane conversations. This bond provides comfort, understanding, and a sense of identity amid societal pressures and personal struggles.
The Evolution of Letter Writing and Pen Friends
Pen pals have historically fostered friendships and cultural exchange through written communication, from ancient times to today. The evolution of letter writing spans various civilizations and mediums, enhancing personal connections. Despite the rise of digital communication, the nostalgia and emotional richness of handwritten letters continue to hold significant value in modern relationships.
Taboo Topic of Asking or Demanding Personal Space
The content critiques the concept of personal space within Indian society, contrasting it with Western norms. It explores the impact of familial dynamics on mental health, discussing feelings of isolation and resentment. The writer connects personal experiences to broader societal issues, emphasising the need for balanced coping mechanisms while evolving in the social contexts.
The Elephantine God | Invocation Poem
Post participation in a 21-day poetry challenge, results in my first poetry collection, "Call of the Moon," published in 2024. The audio poem "The Elephantine God" is an invocation to Lord Ganesha, embodying themes of grace, enlightenment, and the mystical nature of existence.
Spiced Stories Over A Steaming Cup | Pairing Books and Chai
The joy of pairing spiced Assam Masala Chai from Teabox with captivating books enriches the reading experience. The warmth of chai enhances immersion in literature, making the act of reading more enjoyable. Recommended reads include "A Suitable Boy," "Midnight’s Children," and "The Henna Artist," and "Malgudi Days," each book offers unique narrative experiences that complement a strong brewed Assam Masala chai.
Itinerant Storyteller 